Happy 18th Anniversay

18 years ago today I married the love of my life. We have done these pictures all 18 years. It is fun to look back on all the pictures and see how we have changed. Everyone always asks "What are you going to do when you run out of fingers?" I don't really know. Maybe we will use the kids fingers???? Anyway, Happy Anniversary Philip. I love you more...........

Beach 2008

We just got back from Perdido Key, FL. We had a whole week with the family and with Sean and Amanda Dodds and their little girl, Samantha. Sean and Amanda have some friends who have a condo at Perdido Key and they invited us to tag along with them. We had so much fun. We played on the beach, and in the water. We played games at night and went sand crab hunting at night. Sean even treated us to a day of crab fishing. We had never done that and it turned out to be pretty fun. We owe so much to Sean and Amanda. They were so kind to let us come with them. It was very relaxing and nice to get away from the "real world" for awhile. Thank you Dodds for making our vacation so special. You are great friends!!!

I have lots of pictures to share but tried to pick some of my favorites. We start back to school this Thursday. In a way I'm looking forward to it and in other ways I'm not. I'm hoping and praying that they all get good teachers that will help them grow and learn.

Daddy and his girl.

Mom trying hard to not let her little girl grow up.

The Thurman boys.

The Thurman Bunch

Dad and Brice

Ain't that sweet.

Mom and Brice

The kids
Sean and Amanda
The DoddsSamantha showing me a shell.

The view from our balcony.

Shelby looking for shells.

Shelby and Samantha playing in the sand.

The stick man.

Crab fishing...

Our first crab. We ended up catching about 12.

Eli playing in the waves.

Here is a video of Brice "escaping" from the sand.


Here is similar video of Eli "escaping" from the sand. You know...monkey see, monkey do...


Watch Brice in action...

Big Stuf '08

Philip, Brice and Shelby went to Big Stuf last week. They had so much fun! Shelby took some pictures but none of Brice or Philip. They had wonderful worship times and they had fun free time on the beach.

Shelby asked her good friend, Reagan, to go with her. She knew several people from school that went on the trip. Her is a picture of them outside there room.

One of the special guests during the week was Jeff Foxworthy. The kids said he was great. I didn't even know he was a Christian. Philip said he has been a Christian since a young boy and told his testimony. I'm glad they had a such a great time.

Quiet Week...I hope!

Eli and I sent Brice, Shelby and Philip off to camp this morning. Philip has been texting me along the way. I know they made it to Milton a while back so I'm sure they are pretty close to their destination... Panama City. The kids were so excited to be going. I don't think either slept much last night. Davis, the youth pastor, will be blogging throughout the week. You can read, if you want, what they are up to. Just click here and it will take you there. Eli and I plan to have a nice, quiet week. We went to Blockbuster today and rented some movies, we are going to sleep in everybody's beds, and we plan to have a friend over and maybe go swimming.

Please pray for us because I don't do very well when Philip is not here. I can't sleep and when I can't sleep I get very grumpy. Pray for Philip because he won't get much sleep this week either and he gets pretty grumpy too!! Pray for Brice and Shelby. I pray that they will listen and learn and have fun. I hope this changes their lives. Neither of them have ever been to something like this and I can remember my days as a youth. I remember how different speakers, at camp, changed me.

Well, Eli is pulling me to come play Wii with him. He loves having me all to himself. It's pretty fun!

Thanks for reading........

Do Over

This has been one of those weeks that you would like to do over. And when I say do over, I don't mean I want to do it again the same. I wish it could all be different. Tuesday we got word that one of our church partners, who was 36 weeks pregnant, lost her baby. It was so terrible! Today we are having a funeral/memorial service for her. Her name was Grayson Strong Butler. Please remember Joey and Gretchen Butler in your prayers. They need strength in the next weeks, and months. They are strong people and I have seen God work through them already but today is going to be hard. Pray for Philip today also because he is doing some of the service. He has really worked hard on the right words. You know how emotional he is and I want him to be able to make it through without falling apart. We also had another emergency within our church. A family being torn apart and there is really nothing you can do. Pray for Dawn as she tries to balance taking care of her own family while helping her brother. (God knows who Dawn is) I have mentioned our friend in Hattiesburg, Mike Madaris. He had 6 rounds of his treatments this week and seems to be doing fairly well. We have some other friends from our days in Hattiesburg that are going through an unimaginable time right now. Jason has been going through chemo for leukemia the last 8 months or so. This week he took a turn for the worst and is now on a ventilator with no brain activity. He has a wife and 3 small children. Please pray for them all. I can't imagine what is going on with that family.

Soooooo, as you can see, I'm just about done emotionally. I'm ready for some brighter days. Philip always says it seems to come in threes. I'm glad we are past that point. Let's start over with a new day!!

I don't think, in a long time, that I have spent so many late night hours thanking God for my children and my husband. It's times like these that you don't want to take anything for granted. Thanks for praying for all of our friends.

Happy 4th

We had a fun 4th of July. We went to Columbia to visit Philip's parents. We ate too much as usual and just had a really good visit. Philip and I were able to visit an old friend of ours, Mike Madaris, from our Hattiesburg days. He is a fine man who worked in our college ministry there. His family has meant so much to us over the years. He is leaving today to go to MD Anderson to start treatment for melanoma. Visit his blog to follow his journey ( a bend in the road, as he calls it) and please pray for him and his family. We went to Silver Creek and Monticello on the 4th and saw some kin folks and swam in Philip's cousin's pool. Then we went into the city of Monticello and watched some fireworks. It was alot of fun. Eli even made a new friend. He discovered that he has a 3rd cousin that is the same age as he. They had a blast together swimming and watching the fireworks. We are gearing up this week for camp on the 15th. We have lots to buy and do before they all leave. We have an orthodontist appointment and several meetings to throw in to the mix as well. It's a full week...

Cooking out at the Thurman's.

Swimming at Margaret's house.

Eli and Chazz

Watch a video of the fireworks. It's a little long but if you didn't get to see a fireworks show this year you may enjoy.

Big News

Ok, so maybe it's not big news for everyone. But for the Thurman house, it's a big deal. Brice, Philip and I have decided that Brice will not play select soccer this next year. We have dealt with this decision for a couple of years now and this year we are following through with our gut feelings. Brice has played with this club since he was in 4th grade. (he is going into the 9th) We have spent who knows how much money for club fees, team fees, uniforms, hotel rooms, gas money, food, injuries and even more time with practices and traveling. Brice was tired of being gone all the time and being gone from church. This year our club and a rival club (Jackson Futbol Club) have decided to merge a couple of the age groups, ours being one of them. We thought it would be a good year to take off because of this. We can sit back and see how things progress with this and see how we feel next year at this time. Brice will play JV at the high school and play on a rec team. He and Shelby are thinking about playing for a Division 2 team also. This is what Shelby played on this past season. They travel some but not nearly as much as the select teams do. I know that the competition will not be anywhere near what Brice is used to and he will miss his friends. But as for our family, I think it was the right decision. Pray for Brice has he switches gears a bit and tries new things and for him with his friendships. I hope that the boys that he has played with, that are continuing to play on the team, won't shun him or exclude him. He does have other friends at school but I would just hate him to lose the friends he has had for so many years. But on the other hand, if they were only friends with him because he was on the team I guess they aren't worth much anyway. Thanks for praying...